Language of Sex

This is a whole lexicon of words & phrases that everyone usually assumes you know. To begin with, you don’t and why should you? Whats a Bj, Cj anyway? Worry not though, below is your very own glossary. Complete and accurate. Soon you will be adept to everything sex and singing like a canary when you book your next Escort.

Escort – As a rule a person who charges for her time and companionship only.

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69 – Simultaneous (vagina) and (penis) or vagina play in opposite directions.

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A – Short for anal sex.
AC/DC – Bisexual.
Active – More common in same-sex interactions (gay (male) and/or lesbians). The active partner is the one who performs anal penetration.
Anal – Short for anal sex.
Anal Sex – Using the rectum for sexual intercourse.
AWO – Anal without, meaning anal sex without a condom. (Unsafe).
Ass– Means Anus.

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B
Backdoor – Woman’s anus.
Bad Client – Dangerous / violent or non-paying clients.
Bait & Switch – When a bad escort or escort agency uses photos of very attractive ladies that are not really available in their advertising, in order to ‘reel’ punters in.
Balls – testicles.
Bareback – Slang for sex without a condom especially in same-sex relationships.
BBBJ – Bareback blow job, i.e. oral sex on a man without a condom.
BBW – Big beautiful woman (Also sexy Big Black Woman).
BDSM – Means a combination of various sexual activities. The major sub-groupings are: Bondage (B), Bondage & Discipline (B&D), Domination & Submission (D&S, DS, D/S) & Sadism & Masochism (or Sadomasochism) (S&M, SM). See also Dom & Sub.
BJ- Blow job.
Bi – Bisexual.A person attracted to either sex.
Bi-Curious – Someone who is curious about or willing to experiment with bisexual activities.
Blow Job – Also BJ.
Blue Balls – Severe need to experience sexual orgasm in a male.
Bondage – When restraints are placed on the body.
Bondage & Discipline – Also abbreviated to B&D. See BDSM.
Boner – Erection. Kunuji/ Kubao ( In Sheng).
Boning – Fucking. Have sex.
Bottom – See Dom & SUB. The sub in a sub/dom relationships or the male who receives anal penetration in a male/male relationship.
Brazilian – Using hot Wax to remove some Pubic Hair to form a triangular shape especially in a woman.
Boro– Penis. See Mboro or Mbolo.
Brothel – Any building that has rented out rooms to Escorts to offer incall services who may or may not be under a pimp.A house of prostitution.
Bukkake – Sexual practice where several men ejaculate on the face of a woman.
Bumhole – Slang for the anus.
Bush – Means pubic hair

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Call Girl – Used to mean a prostitute mostly by the media and blogs.
Clit– Short for the clitoris.
CIM – Acronym for cum (ejaculate) in the mouth.
Client– One who engages the services of an Escort.
Cock – Means Dick or Penis rarely used.
Cock & Ball Torture – Also CBT. BDSM practice of attaining pleasure by inflicting/receiving painful stimulation to the male genitals.
COF – To cum (ejaculate) on the face.
Completion – Orgasm. For example, OWO to completion means oral sex without a condom until ejaculation.
Cowgirl – Position for sexual intercourse, the man on his back, the woman sitting on top.
Covered – With a CD.
CP – Corporal punishment.
Crack – Means the space between Ass/ Buttocks and between boobs/breasts. See Cleavage.
Creampie – Ejaculation into the vagina/pussy or anus without a condom.
Cross Dressing – Sometimes CD, means dressing up as the opposite sex, usually males dressing up as females.
Cum – Also come. Slang for orgasm / ejaculation / semen. Also KUMWAGA.
Cunnilingus – Oral sex in which the mouth or tongue is used to stimulate the vulva and clitoris of a woman.
Cleavage– Space between breasts.
Condom: Rubber protection against STDs and HIV/AIDS for both Male and Female.

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D
Daisy Chain – Sexual activities in which several people are stimulating each other’s genitals simultaneously.
Deep Throat – Having the whole Dick/Penis/Cock put inside the mouth and throat. The sexual activity.
Deep Throat – See Penis/Cock/Mboro/Boro
Dildo – A sex toy, usually shaped like a penis that may be manually operated or mechanized.
Discipline – See Bondage & Discipline
Doggie Style – Slang for a sexual position where the male penetrates the female from behind.
Domination – Domination is where one partner dominates over the other. Also Dominant, Dom, Domme, Domina, Dominatrix – The person that is in charge. If the person is a male he is called a dominant or dom; if female she is called a domme, domina or dominatrix. See BDSM.
Double Penetration – When a woman is penetrated by two men/women with dildos/Penis simultaneously, one in the vagina and one in the anus.
Dungeon – A place for BDSM activities to go on in.
Dungeon– Lesbian. See LELE.

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Eat pussy – Vaginal oral sex. LAMBA LOLO, KUNIKULA
Escort – A person who charges for her time and companionship only.
Escort Agency – An agency with numerous escorts under it.
Exhibitionist – A person who derives sexual gratification by displaying his or her body to others. See BOUDOIR.
Extras– All activities that follow up after a massage by a Masseuse/Massage specialist.

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Face Sitting – Practice of a woman sitting on a mans’ face.
Facial – This is where a man ejaculates/CUMS over a female’s face.
Fellatio – Kissing, nibbling, licking or sucking the penis. BLOWJOB
Female Ejaculation – When a woman ejects fluid from her vagina during orgasm. See SQUIRTING
Fetish – An extreme sexual interest in a particular activity, object or a part of the body.
Fisting – The act of inserting the whole hand inside the vagina/PUSSY/KUMA or anus/ASS.
Foot Fetish / Foot Worship – Sexual obsession towards feet or shoes.
Foreplay – Sexual activity that takes place in the early stages of arousal.
French – French sex. Another term for fellatio.
French Kissing – A kiss with one or both partner’s tongues inserted into the other’s mouth.
Full Service – This generally means full sex and fellatio.
Full Sex – Vaginal intercourse.

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GFE – Acronym for Girlfriend Experience. A GFE is where an escort or prostitute provides a girlfriend type experience, i.e. french kissing, etc.
Gang-Bang – Sexual practice where a woman has vaginal intercourse with several men in succession.
Gigolo – Male escort / prostitute.
Give Head – To perform oral sex. See BLOWJOB
Go Down On – To perform oral sex.
Golden Shower – Watersports. Act of urinating on a person.
Give– To fuck someone. See KUPEA

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Hand Job – Masturbation, particularly at the hands of another.
Hard On – State of male sexual arousal resulting in the erection and hardening of the penis. See KUNOJI
Hooker – Prostitute. Working Girl
Horny – Slang for being sexually aroused.
Humiliation – Humiliation in a sexual context, whereby one person gains arousal/excitement from being humiliated and demeaned.

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I
Incall – Escort booking where the client visits the escort. Opposite of outcall.
Independent Escort – An escort who works for herself, not an escort agency.

J
Jack Off/ Jerk Off – To masturbate.

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K
Knocked up – Pregnant See Paged.
Kuma– Vagina/Pussy

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L
Lap Dancing – A woman dancing with lingerie or nude on the laps of a client.
Lay(ed) – To perform sexual intercourse. To be fucked.
Load – The fluid from an ejaculation. See CUM.

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Masochism – See Sadism & Masochism.
Massage – Rubbing, stroking or kneading a person’s body, sometimes with oil, for sensual or sexual pleasure or to relieve stress, pain or stiffness.
Massage Parlour – An establishment offering various kinds of massage and some offer EXTRAs.
Masturbation – sexual stimulation of one’s own or another’s sexual organs, usually with the hands, but also with other parts of the body or with objects.
Mature – A term used to describe an older woman in the adult world. Cougar
Menage a Trois – Three people engaging in sexual activity together, often involving a couple and an outside lover. See THREESOME
Missionary Position – A position during sexual intercourse where the man is on top of the woman and lying between her legs.
Mistress – A woman who takes control in SM role play. Sometimes also means a kept woman. Slay queen
MMF – A male-male-female threesome.

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Nymphomaniac – A woman who feels a compulsion to have sex with as many men as possible.
Nuts – Slang for testicles.Also Nutting meaning to CUM.

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O
Oral – Short for oral sex.
Oral Sex – Either fellatio or cunnilingus but usually the former in the context of escort talk.
Orgasm – The climax of sexual excitement, usually involving rhythmic contractions of the pelvis and genital muscles, which produces highly pleasurable sensations throughout the body. In a male, it is usually accompanied by ejaculation.
OTK – Over the knee (spanking).
Outcall – Where the escort visits the client at his home or hotel. Opposite of incall.
OWO – Acronym for oral without. Means the woman performs oral sex on the man without a condom.

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Passive – In male/male sex the passive partner is the one who receives anal penetration.
Peeping Tom – A person who derives sexual satisfaction from watching others undress or engage in sexual activity. Also known as a voyeur.
Pearl Necklace – A male ejaculating over a female’s breasts/shoulders/ neck.
Phone Sex – Talking dirty and/or the act of mutual masturbation or fondling while talking on the telephone.
Pimp – A person who inducts and/or manages prostitutes.
POA – price on application.Or Price on Contact.
Pro – Prostitute.
Prostitution / Prostitute – The practice of engaging in sexual activities in exchange for money. A person who engages in such activity is known as a prostitute. Provider – Prostitute.
PSE – a porn star experience, meaning seeing an escort or prostitute who is a porn star.
Pussy – Slang for vagina.

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Q
Quickie – A very brief sex act.

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R
Red Light District – An area of a city or town where prostitution services are easily available.
Rent Boy – A male prostitute, often young, who provides gay sexual services.
Reverse – Means the opposite way round to that which is most common between an escort or prostitute and her client. For example, reverse oral means cunnilingus.
Rimming – The practice of licking or sucking the anus of a partner.
RLD – Acronym for the red-light district.
Role Play – To act out a fantasy or desire with a partner, e.g. boss and secretary, teacher and pupil, nurse and patient.
Rubber – Slang for a condom.
Russian – Slang for thrusting penis between a woman’s breasts, simulating intercourse.

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Sadism & Masochism / Sadomasochism / SM / S&M – A form of sexual practice in which pleasure is gained from a combination of sadism and masochism. Sadism is a form of sexual practice in which a person gains pleasure from inflicting pain on another. Masochism is a form of sexual behavior in which a person derives sexual pleasure from feeling pain or having humiliation or domination inflicted on them.
Slave – A person consensually choosing to be a slave in the BDSM sense or a victim of trafficking.
Screw – Slang for the act of sexual intercourse.
Sex – On its own usually means vaginal intercourse.Sex- Worker- One who is paid for providing sex or sexually arousing conditions, including prostitution, striptease, lap dancing, commercial phone sex, and erotic massage.Sex-Toys- Devices that are designed to give or increase sexual pleasure, e.g. vibrators.
Slave – A submissive that is involved in a slave / master fantasy.
Slave Training – The instruction of a submissive in a dominant’s preference. The submissive’s behaviour is hereby conditioned.
Slut – Slang for a woman who has or who has had many sexual partners (derogatory).
Snogging – French kissing.
Snowballing – The act of transferring semen from one mouth to another.
Sodomy – Anal intercourse.
Solicit / Soliciting – To offer sexual services in return for money, especially in a public place.
Spanking – Spanking another for the sexual gratification of either or both parties.
Spank the Monkey – Male masturbation.
Spoons – A position for sexual intercourse, both partners lying on their side, with the man behind the woman.
Spunk – Semen.
Squirt-female ejaculation.
Stallion-Male who possesses a very large penis.
Straight sexginal intercourse.
Strap On – A dildo that is worn around the waist by a female, via a strap, in order to perform anal sex on a male.
Streetwalker– A prostitute.
Stud – A male who is in great demand as a sex partner.
Submissive / Sub – A submissive is a partner who allows the other to dominate over him / her. Ladies that say they are submissive are offering to be a submissive partner.
Sub / Dom – Sexual practices in which partners take defined dominant and submissive roles.
Suck off – To perform oral intercourse on the penis.
Sugar Daddy – A man who keeps a younger person for sexual favours.
Swallows – Means that the woman swallows the man’s cum.
Swinging – Partner swapping and sharing within groups of friends or associates. Swinging may involve singles or couples having sex play in pairs or groups, in front of each other or in private.
Switch hitter – A bi-sexual.

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Tart – A woman who has or who has had many sexual partners or is an escort/prostitute (normally derogatory but not always offensive).
Tea Bagging – The act of placing the testicles in the mouth of a partner.
Timewaster – A term escorts use to describe clients who make inquiries and bookings with no intention of following through.
TLC – Acronym for tender loving care.
Top – The dom in a sub/dom relationships or the male who gives anal penetration in a male/male relationship.
Touring Escort – An escort who is only touring the area she is available in temporarily.
Trafficking – Trafficking is where vulnerable women and girls in foreign countries are duped into traveling to another country in order to work as prostitutes.
Training – Slave training.
Trick – Slang for sexual services performed by a prostitute. Turning a Trick is the act of performing a sexual act for money.

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U
Uncovered – Without a condom
Uncut – Uncircumcised penis.

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V
Vacuum cleaner – One who applies great suction during oral sex.
Vanilla Sex – Refers to what society regards as standard or conventional sexual behavior. Often used to describe sex with no kinky elements or missionary position sex.
Vibrator – Sex aid, powered by mains electricity or batteries, that vibrates rhythmically to produce sensual pleasure.
Voyeur – A person who enjoys and becomes sexually aroused by watching others undress or engage in sexual activities.

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Watersports – Also W/S. Urination in a sexual context. Usually means the escort urinating over the client or for the client to watch.
WG – Working girl.
Whore – An escort, prostitute or sex worker (derogatory).
With – Usually means ‘with a condom’
Working Girl – An escort, prostitute or sex worker.

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